You know those food bloggers who have the perky, joyous blog posts that inspire you to go out and conquer the world? I’m totally not going to be that chick for you right now. Right now I need you to sit with me and hold me. Tell me that life won’t suck this bad in a couple of months. I need to cry so hard that my nose starts running, but you can’t get grossed out and hurl. You and I are going to sit down with our mugs of Pumpkin Spice Chai Lattes and a box of Kleenex and do the damned thang. It is fall after all. I is a hot-mess after all, too.
I’ve been a downer these last few posts, I know it. Life around here isn’t always this sucky and gray, I promise. The latter days of summer, and going into fall while doing a deployment, though? That’s not easy because they’re full of birthdays and a special anniversary…mine.


Incompetent drivers aside, I- and more importantly- the cakes, made it in one, unshifted, piece. I was able to breathe again, and spend time with my surrogate family. Watching two people choose each other in holy matrimony is a blessing in and of itself. Remembering when you did it those many years ago (and realizing you’re still at it) makes it all the more special.
Alas, I had to come back to reality…alone. There was no way I was going to stay for the first dance. I jetted before I embarrassed myself, and had a cupcake and a can of wine after making it back home. Not only, because I was relieved that the drive was behind me sans tear-fest, but because I was just that pathetic. Back to the monotony of being a Blue Star Wife. Yay.
I needed something to warm my soul this week, so I figured I may as well bust out the Pumpkin Spice while I’m at it. It being September, and all, why not? Plus, since the Twinks and I all love Chai, whenever I make it I need to make it in bulk.

The latte in the name just refers to the addition of milk. Milk of any variety can be used. I prefer half-and-half in my Chai latte, but coconut milk is a great sub if you want a vegan option. Feel free to tailor yours, but this is a great springboard Pumpkin Spice Chai recipe to start you off with.

Remove them from the heat and allow to cool slightly before grinding them in a coffee grinder dedicated to your spices. I say, “dedicated,” because coffee can be a pretty serious deal to some folks. I, for one, don’t play when it comes to my coffee, so having it taste like Pumpkin Spice may tick me off. Electric coffee grinders are pretty economical, so one that is used only for spices shouldn’t break the bank. If you can’t swing it, a good old-fashioned mortar-and-pestle works like a charm. That, or as I said before, go with the ground spices. Pulse them until you have a coarse powder. Your nutmeg seed may not break down fully, but you do want it ground smaller than what you started with.


Pour your tea into the french press, give it a stir with a wooden, not metal (made that mistake with the last press), spoon and slowly press. Allow the tea to sit for a minute or two after you’ve pressed to let it settle and…


Follow that up with your milk of choice. Again, I’m using half-and-half, because…well, I’m sad, I told you. Fat is irrelevant when I’m sad. If you care about your weight, kudos, use skim, or even almond or coconut milk. The latter two will make this a vegan chai latte- bonus!

I’m sad. Terribly sad because I miss my best friend. But, I’m grateful. When we first announced our engagement, I’m almost certain bookies were taking bets from some of our friends and family on how long our marriage would last. And, I don’t blame them. Hector and I were young, opinionated and immature. I had just turned twenty-one, for God’s sake! Our attitudes, coupled with the fact that we were going to be a military family meant the odds weren’t in our favor. Many- many– of our friends have since gotten divorces. So, I’m grateful. I’m sad, but blessed. Some people keep telling me, “He’ll be home soon,” seems like “soon” is a relative term. But! I do know that he’ll be home.
While I wait, I’ll enjoy this Pumpkin Spice Chai Latte as it warms my soul; I’ll read his card because that warms my heart. And, I’ll celebrate the fact that we’ve made it one more year.
Happy Anniversary, Sapo. Here’s to growing old together.

Pumpkin Spice Chai Latte
at Sense & EdibilityIngredients
- 2 cinnamon sticks 1 tbsp ground cinnamon
- 1 nutmeg seed 1 1/2 tsp ground nutmeg
- 4 cardamom seeds 1 tsp ground cardamom
- 2 " piece of ginger 1 tsp ground ginger
- 2 star anise optional
- 1 tsp whole cloves 1/2 tsp ground cloves
- 1/2 tsp whole allspice 1/4 tsp ground allspice
- 2 black peppercorns pinch of freshly ground black pepper, optional
- 8 Assam or English Breakfast tea bags
- 4 1/2 cups water
- 1 1/2 cup half-and-half or coconut milk
- demerara sugar to taste
Instructions
- If using ground spices, proceed to step three. If using whole spices, over medium heat in a skillet, toast all of the spices, except the fresh ginger, until fragrant- about 5 minutes. Remove from the heat and allow to cool slightly.
- Grind the spices to a coarse powder in a coffee (or spice) grinder.ย
- In a saucepan, combine the water, tea bags, ginger, and spices. Bring to a rapid boil and turn off the heat. Cover the pot with a tight-fitting lid and allow to steep, on the burner, for 10 minutes.
- Pour the tea into a french press. Allow to sit for five minutes before slowly pressing to extract the flavors. let the tea settle for five minutes before pouring into mugs. Alternatively, if you're not using a press, strain the tea into the mugs through a fine-mesh strainer.
- Add the milk in equal portions to the mugs and sweetened with sugar as desired. Serve immediately.ย
Pin this recipe for those days you’ll need some lovin’ and check out these other soul-warming recipes of mine:
Medicine Bomb Chicken Soup
Shakshuka in Crostata
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18 years!!!! Congratulations, I can’t even imagine! Here’s to many, many more.
And I’ll definitely have to give that latte a try!
Kate | http://www.thegoldsister.com
Thank you, Kate! I think we’re still babes in this marriage game, but it is a blessing. I hope you love the latte as much as I do.
Yum! My husband would love this!
Great! I hope he enjoys it!